I saw Caitlyn from Caitlin Smiles do this and thought it was very helpful… so thought I would do it as well:
Sir: For now, I believe this title is befitting. I have been writing this journal for us to stay in touch and keep the communication lines open. He lives on the opposite side of town, is rarely sitting still during the week because of his line of work and I haven’t earned the right to call him anything else or call him on a cell phone that is strapped to his hip 24/7. Our communication is predominately here, email and then we get to spend one day a week with each other. For now… it’s fitting but as we all know… orchid is ALWAYS wanting more.
Master E: Technically, I am wearing HIS collar… but because he is located in an entirely different state and I haven’t seen him in two years and probably won’t get to for about another few more, it’s a technicality (I am very big on those) still around my neck. 3 years ago, it was placed there and I ran from it very quickly at which point it was quickly pointed out that he never ‘released’ me. Talk about complexity. If there is anything that I enjoy though, it’s knowing that we have a good strong bond, and he helps me through times that Sir can’t. I haven’t asked for release and won’t unless something changes, but if there is anything that I treasure it Master E’s friendship and the ability to return to him and know that as long as I left on good terms, he will always welcome me back.
orchid: me… shade orchid, shaid orchid, kitten, Bitch, and so many other names… I couldn’t even begin to start this paragraph of information.
Husband: Married/together 18 years and we have been through hell and back again together. We had a poly home for many years and have had an open marriage for many more. Even though he is not into the lifestyle, he is confident enough in our marriage to let me be able to pursue this. I love him to death and he is one of few people who I would take a bullet for and never once regret it.
pet: pet kind of just showed up on my doorstep with a little help from his wife and my ex-coworker and friend. The irony of this is that this started about the time I met Sir and so the relationships are growing slowly and steadily. I see pet and talk to him constantly as his path not only in the lifestyle, but in his spiritual real is growing with a maternal hand that I am offering. I find this befitting for several reasons. I put down the paddle and stepped out of the Domme boots over 4 years ago after a crushing blow to my ego was landed by the slave that I had at that time. I have never decided to pick it back up until now. Why now? Because I felt if he had tried to find anyone else out there to help him out… the piranhas of the area would have shredded him. I couldn’t see or let that happen… so now, here I am… a growing switch/slave/sub whatever you want to call me…
M: Best friend, confidant and bringer of laughter and sweetness in my life. After almost 10 years of friendship, this is one of only another few that I would take a bullet for. He is the warmest most caring man I have ever met, and it’s too bad that his wife got to him AFTER I had been married. I am just lucky enough to have him as a friend…and now…we know enough about each other that we are quite dangerous to each other should we piss each other off just enough….BOOM!…. So we HAVE to stay friends now LOL
Egg Donor: Most people call this their “mother” but as you can see, she isn’t quite worthy of that title in my world.
